This is a classic example of how hetero norms and gender roles often find their way into same sex relationships and disrupt things. In a now deleted instagram post one user lamented he was upset that he had given up his cakes to top who also happens to do drag. He also lamented that the top didn't disclose this too him prior to their sexual encounter.
My inital thought after reading this was the same as one of this guys followers: HOW WAS THE D? Everyone is entitled to like who they like but I don't know that I would disqualify somoene for doing drag, nor do I think doing drag disqualifies you from being a top. There are masculine bottoms and feminine tops you just have to find someone that likes whatever you're bringing to the table. What are your thoughts on this issue?