Love

When and How To End A Toxic Friendship

Friendships are one of the most rewarding and important parts of life. But unfortunately, there are times when a bond we create with another person slowly begins to deteriorate and a certain friendship stops bringing emotional reward and joy. Quite simply, spending time with this person begins to feel as if it's doing more harm than good.

Out Rapper Le1f Shares Racist Messages He Received On Grindr

Shocker!  Another racist using Grindr!  Grindr seems like the go to app for racists and men of color who want to be abused by them.  Grindr also seems like the go to app for men of color who only go after white guys but thats another post. 

At any rate this is sad and shouldn't happen to anyone no matter who you want to date. 

This is The Most Hype We've Ever Seen People At A Gay Wedding

If my friends don't celebrate for me like this when I finally jump the broom then they are not really my friends.  I want all of this.  I want stiletto heels, I want people making it rain on my bridesmaids, I want trap music playing as they walk down the aisle.  In all seriousness though they looked like they had a great time.  Congrats to the couple!

Watch: This Surprise Gay Wedding Proposal Will Bring Tears To Your Eyes

Dee and Rob have been together for eight years.  Watch as Rob surprises Dee with the proposal of a lifetime.  Videos like these always give us hope that one day someone will do something like this for me, or I'll be able to do it for someone.  We really enjoyed this one!  Congrats to the newly engaged couple!

You Can’t Make Someone Love You, And You Shouldn’t Have To

You can’t make someone love you. You can wait and wait, hoping they will fall for you. You can spend all of your time trying to impress them by sending cute texts and flirty Snapchats. But in the end, you have no say over what they send back. You can search for clues by piecing together all of the half-smiles they’ve flashed at you, and the late night texts they’ve sent you, but you can’t magically make them have meaning. You can romanticize the conversations you’ve had. You can defend the times they’ve stood you up.

We're Together But Bae Is Still On A Dating App Looking For "Friends"

Should your bae still be online after taking you off the market?  How long should someone's online profile still be active after you've became exclusive?  Is anyone on a dating site just looking for friends?  Some of us have been there. You meet someone awesome; start dating, and then suddenly you realize they still have an active online dating profile. And sometimes it’s not from snooping or being devious; sometimes it just happens. But regardless, what do you do about it? Here are a few examples of how/when it can happen and how to handle it like a rational human being.

Gay Couple Appears On Divorce Court "I Need The Kanye To My Kim"

Tamarac has a few demands from his fiancé.
-"Match his fly"
-"Pop with flavor" and "drip sauce"
-"Be my Kanye to my Kim"

You can always count on the fam to put on a good show. 

Watch: Stylist Anto Lloyd Braids His Boyfriends Hair

Nothing like having an in house styist to keep your edges and baby hairs intact.  

12 Signs You Might Be Emotionally Unavailable

Have you been called cold and unfeeling? Some people get that impression, but you're not. You care deeply, but you just like hiding your emotions. Exes have said they broke it off because they couldn't get past the wall that you put up around yourself and they're right, they couldn't. Being emotionally unavailable doesn't make you less of a person, you still love and want to be loved, you're just afraid of letting someone in, it only gives them more power over you. You are your own hero. Here are some signs that you are emotionally unavailable:

Pedro and Pablo's Cancun Wedding